Saoirse Ronya Frida Castenmiller

Ride The Waves

May 13th, 2025 – Tuesday

Today was filled with both purpose and emotion as we continued planning for Saoirse’s farewell ceremony. Our home welcomed our beautiful midwife Marley and intern Tess, both of whom were present during those precious and challenging moments when Saoirse came into our lives. Their visit brought a gentle connection between then and now, helping to weave together the threads of Saoirse’s brief but profound journey.

In the quiet moments between planning, we created something tangible to hold onto. We made casts of Saoirse’s tiny feet and hands – delicate impressions that will later become lasting keepsakes, perhaps a necklace or another cherished memento. It’s remarkable how these simple shapes hold so much love and meaning, capturing forever the perfect detail of her being.

The farewell ceremony for our little selkie will take place on Friday, May 16th at 11:00 AM at Crematorium Beuningen. For those unable to attend in person but wishing to join us in spirit, a live stream will be available. We’ll post the link here as soon as it’s arranged, allowing our extended circle of love to participate from afar.

There remains much to do in these coming days – selecting the music, designing meaningful graphics for her ceremony, and attending to the many details that will honor her memory. Though the tasks are many, each one is approached with love, as every choice is a way of expressing what words alone cannot convey.

Thank you for continuing to ride these waves with us.

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